Monthly Archives: September 2012

The baby, the baby, the baby!

It turns out that Donné is pretty good at giving birth đŸ™‚

We knew things were on the go yesterday when she had her show, and by 5 o’clock this afternoon the contractions had started. Fortunately she did not go from no contractions to crazy wild contractions like last time. This time they gradually built up, which gave us a nice chance to sort out Grace, call Keren to come and look after Grace, tidy up the house, and get everything ready for school the next day.

Grace was SUPER excited that she might wake up to a new baby brother….and I know exactly what the first thing out of her mouth is going to be in the morning. I don’t think she wanted to go to sleep she was so excited.

When Keren arrived at 20h30 things had moved forward quickly and it was time to go to the hospital. We arrived just before nine and when the sister checked, Donné was 9cm dilated. Call the doc and in he came, and at 21h48 little Eli Drennan was born.

Brand new!

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Donné was amazing and pushed like a trooper, and everything went perfectly. Mommy and baby are both 100% well đŸ™‚

We did it! Well, actually, she did it!

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Giving my boy some love

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3.465kg – a nice healthy weight for a 37 week pregnancy

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He was so super chill while being weighed. My last experience of weighing a new born was Grace screaming her lungs out as soon as she touched the scale. He just chilled through it all.

51cm long.

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34cm head diameter

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It is really amazing how perfectly things worked out. Keren didn’t have to drive in traffic or wake up in the middle of the night, we had lots of time to sort all of Grace’s things out, and I can be here in the morning to take Grace to the hospital to meet her baby brother.

Thank you Father God for blessing us with Eli, for a healthy mommy and baby and for the serendipity of how everything happened. Lord, you are truly good to us, thank you, amen.

I’m really excited to meet little Eli. It is such a different experience to the first time. We’re much more chilled and he is just a cute little baby rather than a scary bundle of squeaks and cries. It is wonderful to be full of excitement and wonder, rather than being overwhelmed by it all.

I’m also really excited to introduce him to Grace đŸ™‚

Love you mama

Donné was lying on the bed reading, feeling generally sensitive and Grace was being her usual boisterous bumping-pushing-not-at-all-worried-about-mama-being-sensitive self. So I said to her, "Grace, you need to be gentle with mommy, so just touch her gently and whenever you touch her say 'I love you'."

Grace gently puts her hand onto DonnĂ©, "I love you mama," (she has regressed to mama instead of mommy for the last few days). She then takes her hand off and touches DonnĂ© in another spot, "I love you mama." And then again, "I love you mama. I love you mama, I love you mama, I love you mama…" and on she went.

Our rainbow

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We were greeted by a stunning rainbow when leaving for school this morning….which is just always 100s of times more stunning in real life (cell phone camera and rain on the windscreen are not helping). Grace then kept asking where the pretty colours of the rainbow were on the way to school.

We went for another scan today and little boy is lying nicely in place, ready to take his ride down the rabbit hole and into the real world. Officially he still has a couple of weeks to go. We’re still hoping that he’ll join us next week before the Doc goes away to his conference….we have until 6 o’clock on Saturday the 29th. We’ll just have to wait and see what happens.

I’m excited to meet the little guy.

G-r-a-c-e

G is Grace's letter, and every time she sees one she says, "g – that spells Grace," (to which DonnĂ© recently answered, "No, that spells Google," – one of the many G's in the world.)

And when she sees her name she runs through the letters, "g, rr, a, rr, eh." Not sure what's up with the c.

Little weekend things

We were driving and counting the corners until we got home. “Corner number 3,” I said to Grace as we got to the last one, to which she replied, “Cornwell Street.” I said, “Yes, corner number three,” and she said, “Cornwell. Concentrate dad.”

We always pray together before Grace goes to sleep, and each night I ask Grace if there is anything she would like to say thank you for, to which she always replies no. After her good prayer to say thank you for our food I said to her, “Grace, praying is kind of like when we say thank you for our food.” She closes her eyes and says, “Thank you for this wonderful bed, amen.”

So far Grace has not been happy with me taking her too deep under the water. She is happy to be under, but hasn’t wanted to go and collect things from the bottom, even though she is happy to collect rings from the bottom in her swimming lessons. Today we went for  a swim and took her diving toys with. She spoke about diving down to fetch them, but when I asked her if she wanted to she screamed. So we swam and had fun jumping in and grabbing the side. After a while she asked to dive down to fetch her toys, and so we did….and we did….and we did. We swam for about an hour and spent a large chunk of time just diving down to the bottom to fetch the toys and she was absolutely loving it.

Baby shower

The mommies and friends ate cake and drank tea, while the daddies babysat and had fun in the park.

Getting ready

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The OT's

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Thank you to the two special friends who organised everything, and to all the special friends who came and spoiled us and our little boy.

Afterwards Jack & Grace had some bouncing, jumping, go, go, go, go, stop, balloon fun.

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Liftoff!

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While little Diya watched

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Ballet and noses

Grace went to her first ballet lesson today! After watching last week she was really excited so we got hold of the instructor to organise for her to join. When I chatted to her she said that Grace was interested last week, but would turn away and say no when she encouraged Grace to join in. I told her how excited she was, so we decided to see how it went in the last two lessons of the term.

Off she went to school today with her tutu, leotard, tights and ballet shoes, and went to the ballet lesson and did everything in the class. Grace didn't really speak about it, but Crystal (the assistant at the school) let Donné know that the instructor said she did everything.

I also got my first daddy bloody nose today. Grace wanted to read the story tonight, so I was listening to her version of Tinker and Tanker. It is a really old book and the spine in falling apart, particularly at the back, so when we headed towards the end I told Grace that I wanted to hold it so that it wouldn't fall apart. Grace protested and in an unnecessary tantrum threw herself back…..planting her head straight onto my nose. It was pretty sore (but not bleeding), and had me holding my nose for a while. When I blew my nose later though…well….let's just say it was a bloody mess. Appropriate disciplinary action was taken.

Having some fun bouncing

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Good morning!

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Story time with Gramps

Grace has started a new habit when arriving at school. She runs up, goes to the sliding door and loudly says, "Good morning!" Peeps, I'm here – let the day begin.

Watching the children in the morning is actually quite funny. Grace's locker is in the snack room, so there is usually a breakfast committee when we arrive with a variety of foods, from Pringles and sausage rolls to carrot sticks and nuts. Yesterday I had to laugh – two of the little boys were saying something and then laughing away, so I listened a little closer to find out what it was about.

Then it became clear. The one says to the other, "And the flavour is……poo pizza!"

Today Cullen & Catelyn were at the table, and after I said good morning Cullen dived off his chair onto the floor and laughs away. Then Catelyn followed and dived onto the floor laughing away. Up they get and then dive onto the floor and laugh. "Are those chairs slippery?" I asked….and they both dived off again.

Bob the BMW

Bob the BMW had to go into the service centre for some check-ups today, and ended up having to spend the night. This seemed to get Grace a bit off kilter and concerned – she was running around this evening on her phone to Bob, "Come back Bob the BMW, come back Bob the BMW!"