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Although Grace is generally a quiet child she has an adventurous spirit and will definitely try most things at least once. Friday when our friends were visiting Caleb asked Duncan to see our worms in our compost heap so Duncan took one out so that Jack, Caleb and Grace could have a look. The boys weren’t all that interested in picking up a worm but Grace was there hand open and willing to let the worm crawl on her. This afternoon we were talking about something which reminded her of the worms and so when Duncan finished working they were back in the garden watching worms wriggle and squirm over her hand.  

Grace really loves all animals (big and small) and does not show fear when it comes to touching or holding them. When we were in Jeffreys Bay she got to touch a monkey at the pet store and she was so delighted to tell me all about it when she came home, telling me she wanted more.

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Watching them wriggle and squirm on her hand

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Gog bubbles

Yesterday my cousin Leslie and her lovely family came to visit. She has two beautiful girls, Chloë & Robyn, who adore Grace and during their playing Grace managed to spill the last of her bubble mix. Yesterday morning we were going to get some more bubble mix and Grace saw some bubbles with a picture of a dog on them which she wanted, but we had decided to get them some other time. When she spilled the mix I said, "Don't worry Grace, we'll get you some more bubbles tomorrow," to which she answered, "Gog!" (meaning the dog bubbles).

With all the blowing exercises we have been doing with her she has become quite attached to her bubbles, so we made her some bubble mix with dishwashing liquid last night, but this morning she kept reminding us about the dog bubbles. So off we went to the shops with her adamantly saying "Gog!" We had to get a few things along the way and each time we went into a store she would shout, "Gog, gog, gog, gog, gog!"

We didn't find dog bubbles, but she did have lots of fun blowing bubbles today.

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It has been really exciting for us to see Grace’s progress with her speech. It is wonderful to see how much joy she gets from a new word, and also a relief to see her making progress.

Yesterday she started saying, “beep, beep, beep” for the horn on the bus (which sometimes comes out as “meep”). She was also trying to say more words, even though it was often just her mouth moving without any sound.

Today she started meouw-ing while reading a cat book, and she had me in hysterics standing in the bath wee-ing like a boy, laughing and saying, “mee, mee!”

Adult baths

Being parents has certainly had an impact on our relationship. We have both grown as individuals, grown as a family and grown together as parents. It has also had some detrimental effects – we spend less dedicated time together, and have not been communicating as much as we need to – which shows in our relationship.

While on holiday we got to spend a lot more time chatting and connecting. That was mostly because I was not working and we just had more time to spend together in the evenings. It was really good and reminded me that we need to be proactive in nurturing our relationship.

Before Grace was born we would usually chat to each other at bath time. Right from the start of our marriage bath time has always been a time to connect and speak about what is on our minds, but that has changed. For the last while I have been bathing with Grace, and then Donné would bath while I read Grace her bedtime stories. After supper it is typically clean up and kitchen and then off to work until the late hours of the night, leaving little time to connect.

So I have reinstated what we call "adult baths" where it is just the two of us. It is good to continue what we started on holiday and already the effects of this time together are showing.

I have been working pretty hard this year and I don't really know how it all fits together to get everything done that I need to, as well as invest the amount of time that a strong relationship needs, but I do know that trying to work it out is worth it.

Speech therapist – part duex

Grace had her second speech therapy appointment today, and the therapist is very impressed with the progress she has made over the last six weeks. It was encouraging to get positive feedback – at least we know we are on the right track. Grace seems to really enjoy the sessions and today her favourite thing was a wind up mouse which she just wanted more and more of.

I think the most interesting thing the therapist said about Grace is how well she is able to communicate even though her speech is behind, and that she is actually quite assertive ("in a charming way"). I had never thought of how she interacts in those terms, but it is probably quite accurate.

We now have some more homework and another appointment in a month's time. It is exciting that she is making good progress, and today – for the first time – she said "more" (which she pronounces "nor").

Horse riding in her tutu. The clothes may look familiar, as she wanted to dress in the same clothes as yesterday (which had been cleaned this morning).

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Two

Two years ago, at 04h30 in the morning Grace was born. The last two years have been an amazing journey and it has been a privilege to have Grace as a part of our lives. She has changed us and helped us to grow so much, and it has been (and is) exciting to see her develop.

Happy birthday Grace – I look forward to spending many more with you. May God bless you and grow you into a woman after His own heart. May you be filled with love, compassion and wisdom. May you live a long and healthy life filled with happiness. I love you my little one.

Opening presents on the bed this morning

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Birthday outfit

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The weather was bad so we could not go to the park, but we could do something else Grace loves – eat sushi! She was quite adamant that she wanted sushi when she was presented with the options – any other meal choice got a definite "No," while sushi got a vigorous "Yes!" She then proceeded to eat about 8 pieces of maki and California roll before we had to stop her from eating all of our sushi.

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Aunt Annie sent a beautiful tutu birthday present all the way from the USA. Tutus are good for all activities – playing with playdough, pegboards, spinning around the washing line, and picking chillies.

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One last walk

Today was the last day of our holiday and the weather was perfect for one last walk along the pier and beach in PE.

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I think I'll just step off of here – one of you should catch me.

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We are all home safely now and getting ready to return to work. Also, tomorrow is Grace's 2nd birthday.

Duncan the white rabbit

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Duncan put the Caltex white rabbit head on for Grace today. She liked looking at it but wasn’t so sure when Duncan disappeared inside its head.

Last day in Jeffreys

Today was our last full day in Jeffreys Bay, tomorrow we head back to PE for the night and Tuesday we are home.  We really had a wonderful relaxing time here in Jeffreys Bay and although I don't feel quite ready to go back I do feel refreshed.  It has been really special for Grace to spend time with all her Grandparents, Keren and don't forget the dogs and cats. She has had a wonderful time and has made herself quite at home here in Jeffreys Bay.  

Princess Grace

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Grace helping Gogo in the garden.  This weekend she really enjoyed helping Gogo with various tasks around the house including gardening, feeding the animals and unpacking the groceries. 

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Having a mini tea party with her tea set and some yummy carrot cake

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I just wanted to take a photo of the outfit because she decided she wanted to wear the little tutu and the jersey (so she could undo buttons). To get her to actually look at the camera I told her to pretend she was licking a lollipop which she did all to gladly.

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Grace "fried" Duncan a plastic egg and fed it to him like this

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Birthday party – number one

Grace was lucky to spend her first 2nd birthday party with all her grandparents, her aunty Keren, and some extended family members (big thanks to those that made the trip in the torrential rain).

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Silly Grandpa and Grace
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The girls – Robyn decided that the way to win Grace over was to feed her Smarties which resulted in Grace having cheeks filled with Smarties 🙂

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Grace was very spoilt and got lots of help opening her presents.

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Keren baked Grace a beautiful carrot cake in the shape of a monkey, since Miss Grace is a big fan of her monkey.  Grace just loved the cake and was quite upset when people started eating it.  Luckily we have photos of it.

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Blowing out the candles, with a little help from a straw

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