Being attached to the future
A little while back our friend John taught me a life lesson. We were in Yzerfontein and I was taking some photos with his camera. I decided to delete some of them and pushed the delete button and without thinking about it too much followed the same procedure as my camera…..except that starts to delete all the photos on the camera (and there were lots, including new born photos of his little girl).
I pressed cancel as soon as I realised what was happening, and I am not really sure if it did delete any photos, but I felt terrible and told John what had happened. His immediate reaction? “Oh, life’s like that,” and moved on with little concern.
I on the other hand tend to get a bit worked up (at least internally) about those kind of things, so last night I had to take a page out of the lesson book.
We assembled our Ultimaker 3D printer last night and I set up (and tested) a camera for taking a time lapse video. I had a pretty clear idea of what I wanted to do with the video, and then through chatting while building cam up with an even cleared idea – I could visualise exactly how the video was going to go and what the message of it would be. I was feeling very excited.
Everything was working well before the time and about half way through the evening I checked on the output to find that I had 4000 photographs of a box on the desk – somehow it had gotten stuck on the first photo, so half the video was gone. I was bleak. So I had to remind myself of John’s lesson: “life’s like that,” we can’t be too attached to some particular outcome. Eventually that attachment becomes a hinderance for moving forward.
So now we have half a time lapse video of the machine build 🙂
One side note: attachment and commitment mean totally different things. Being committed to an outcome plays a critical role in pushing through the challenges that need to be overcome to achieve a meaningful goal.
The mummy
Just as she got into the bath Grace needed to use the facilities, so to stay warm I wrapped her up.
Back to School
Today I went to observe at the Montessori school we are probably going to send Grace to. Duncan and Grace dropped me off before they headed off to swimming. Before I got out the car Grace said that I must go with to her swimming lesson, but it turns out that she only wanted me to come with so that her baby brother could go watch her swim 🙂
Copy cat
Jack & Grace have developed a very sweet friendship and one of the things that is very cute is how they copy each other, both in what they do as well as what they say.
Thanks for breakfast
We always thank God for our food at supper, but usually Grace doesn’t want to pray with us – probably because she wants to eat rather than pray at that moment – but we always include her.
Finger nails
First you paint mommy’s
Pizza nights
For a long while now, Friday has been pizza nights in the Drennan household. We make our own pizza’s and Grace enjoys the process – squishing and squashing the dough while kneading, rolling out the pizza and putting on the sauce and toppings. And she always enjoys the bacon that goes on them…..surprise, surprise.
Bath time chats
I really enjoy having little chats with Grace. It is always lovely to hear what is going on inside of her head (and her thoughts usually bounce around like a ping-pong ball). For the last few days she has been very chatty during her bath time, so I get to hear and engage in long stories about the day.
Consistent, loving, disciplined
Grace is having another moment with her swimming lessons. She has been resisting going, saying "No go swimming, no go swimming," and so on, but only with regards to her lessons. Swimming with me is a-okay, let's do that everyday, as far as she is concerned.






