Flings

Grace has been expanding her palet and trying all sorts of things which she has not tried before or has not liked before. We recently discovered that she likes barbecue flavoured chips, so Donné decided to see if she might like a Fling. Grace brings it to her mouth, touches it with her tongue, stops and ends with, "No, still not nice."

The magic glasses

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Grace has a pair of magic sunglasses that came from a party pack. If she puts them on, she becomes Goofy. If mommy puts them on, then she becomes Princess Daisy, and if I put them on, I'm Donald Duck. It is a pity that Goofy doesn't like her photo being taken.

The washing station

It is finally done! The washing, snack and imaginary play station is done.

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Grace has a basin to wash dishes, a basket with snacks (fruit, cornthins, honey, butter and such), crockery and cutlery, her kitchen imaginary play toys, dish towels, cloth and a broom and dustpan. And she is enjoying playing. And eating. It was a challenge to get her to the bath tonight because she wanted to eat everything that was still in her snack basket (even after eating well at supper).

Mess up time

We picked up a little ditty from our friend Karen for tidy up time which we have sung since Grace was little. It has been a while since we sung it, but Grace has recently started to sing the song while we tidy up. Today (not at tidy up time) she was singing it and packing some things away. She then started taking pillows off the couch and saying, “Mess up time, mess up time.” Some yin for your yang.

Before we brushed teeth tonight Grace was packing out toys for the bath and had taken out quite a few, including Suzy’s bath. Donné normally baths with Grace on a Sunday (which Grace loves, especially washing mommy’s face). So Donné says to Grace, “Grace, if you want to bath with all those toys there won’t be space for me. You bath with the toys tonight and I’ll bath with you tomorrow night.” Grace looks at her toys, picks up the biggest one (the bath) and puts it back into the basket, “Please mommy will you bath with me?” With such a good understanding of the space constraints, and such an emphatic plea, who could say no?

The needy cat

Donné is sitting on the sofa and Coco (the cat) is rubbing up against her wanting some love. Grace is nearby and I say to her, “Coco is a needy cat.” Grace puts her hands on Coco and starts to knead her like a ball of dough. Well, that’s one way to interpret it.

Entertaining the crowds

Grace and Donné went to buy some new face wash and much to the delight of the store attendants, Grace says, "Got new face wash, go wash face now!" Because obviously Donné didn't wash her face before going out this morning.

They went on to buy some cat food, and Grace says, "Got cat food, Mr Spicey not meeouw now."

Donné made Grace some kitchen items like a small flour box and a small bag of sugar. The sugar is a tiny bag of sugar with an old Panado box inside of it to give it shape. While we were having lunch Grace had a cup of tea. She pulls the Panado box out of the sugar bag and says, "My pills!" She then takes some imaginary pills (a few too many really), picks up her tea, has a sip and goes, "Aaahhh!" (like that aah, I've just had the most delicious refreshing drink). Then repeat, over and over.

Waiting for Wriggles

I am getting really excited for when Mr Wriggles joins us in the world. I certainly have days of thinking, "Oh my word! It is going to be so hectic!" but I currently have a sense of peace about it – that somehow it is going to miraculously work out. It will be great to go through the baby process a second time, with new eyes that have a little bit of experience. A little boy is also going to be a wholly new experience, and probably more importantly he will just be an entirely new person with his own way of interacting with the world. Exciting times ahead.

Diving down

It was the last swimming lesson for the term today, and the last month or so has been going really well. Grace has been loving swimming with Charlene and been making huge progress. Today was one of those wow days for me. The first thing I was really impressed with was Grace floating on her back on her own. In fact, she floated across the entire length of the pool on her back. I actually thought Charlene had been helping her, but she was just floating all by herself.

And then, the diving down. One of the exercises is to dive down and fetch a ring from either the step or the bottom of the pool. Grace has done the preparation for the exercise before, but not actually grabbed any of the rings. Today, Charlene took her under (she holds her at the ribs and guides her through the water) and Grace focussed, reached out perfectly and grabbed the first ring from the step. She then dived down for another two on the step, and followed that with a dive to fetch a ring from the bottom of the pool. She seemed to just love every single minute of her swim today, and I was very chuffed with how well she is doing. Hopefully we can pick up where we left off when the new term begins.

Negotiation tools

"Grace, if you try to grab that off my plate again then you can't have the chicken bones." Sometimes the things we negotiate with are unconventional….in this case Grace has decided that it is lots of fun to pick the meat off the chicken bones.

Seeing the elephant

When we dropped Keren off at the airport the elephant outside the door was getting a fresh spray paint.

So when we were going to fetch Keren again, Grace was very excited to see the elephant.

Donné thought it might be better to just collect Keren from the drop & go, so she suggested this to Grace.

“I *have* to see the elephant, please mommy.” And with that emphatic plea, we went to see the elephant.