Monthly Archives: August 2012

You go rest mommy

This afternoon Grace asked Donné, "How are you feeling mommy?" to which she replied, "Hmmm, I'm not feeling so well," (she's been feeling a bit nauseus and uncomfortable). So Grace says, "It's okay mommy. You stay in bed, I watch two episodes of Mickey Mouse Club." 

That’s my school

When Grace climbed into the car after school today she settled down into her seat, pointed out the window and said, "That's my school! It's a great school."

Sand art

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Grace has always loved sand art and has recently had a fresh surge of interest in it. What is new this time is her focus and ability to do it on her own.

Balls

Grace has never really been into playing with a ball too much. She has always tended to loose interest fairly quickly, but recently it seems like her ball skills are coming in. Now she is loving throwing balloons, hitting a ball with a bat, and (this morning) throwing, kicking, pushing and rolling a beach ball. It is fun to see her exploring these more and having fun playing with them. It’s fun for me too – even if I’m not particularly good at it all.

I designed and built Grace some cupboards so that we can order some of the stuff in her room and give everything a “home” so that it can go back into a particular place once Grace is done with it.

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We wanted to implement the same system that the school uses – everything has its place, and only one toy/activity/game out at a time (i.e. the last thing you were doing gets packed away before the new thing comes out). It has been fascinating to see how with the new order and with the model from school she has been amazingly good about packing things away once she is done. Yes, we still do lots of packing away, but she is much better and really helpful with it.

13 pieces of sushi

That is how many it takes to fill Grace's sushi tummy

Who is that?

Everyday we ask Grace, "What did you do at school today?" and pretty much everyday she answers the same thing, "Nothing." For the first while she was answering, "Build horsey puzzle and draw circles," but now we seem to just get the, "Nothing," answer. As the day goes on the happenings at school gradually come out, either when she is swinging or while she is bathing. Today it took most of the day to figure out why everyone had a packet of chips when Donné collected Grace. We guessed it was someone's birthday, and eventually Grace confirmed and let Donné know that there was cake too.

What did surprise us was when we were looking at photos of the children at school. Grace goes, "Matthew, Marcus, Hannah, Taylor, Emma, Michael…" as she sees each of the children in the photos. She could tell us the names of every child except for one. They sing their "Good morning everyone" song everyday, so she keeps hearing the names, and like most things with Grace what goes in sticks. It is getting it back out that seems to be the problem.

In the end it will be okay

It is just 8 weeks (or less!) to go until our little lad joins us in the world, and I'm feeling quite stressed about it. I am working pretty hard at the moment and am concerned about how life will change once he joins us. I know from experience that life does change significantly, and that it can be quite challenging at times. I am hoping (oh please Lord!) that somehow we will have learnt a bit from the last 3 years of parenting which might help us out a bit, but I do know that he is going to be an entirely different child to Grace and we also have to look after her well at the same time.

My worry is that I am going to struggle to be the kind of parent that I want to be, as well as deliver a great service to my customers. I don't really know how it is going to work out, but I do know that we'll make it through it and in the end everything will be okay.

Dance! Stop!

Grace and I were throwing a balloon to each other, when she says, "Dance! Dance! Dance!" until we all start dancing. The three of us dance a bit until Grace suddenly says, "Stop. Okay, that's enough of that. Throw balloon." She toddles off, fetches the balloon, we throw it a few times, then, "Stop! That's enough of that." And so the cycle goes.

Tracy’s swimming lessons

There is no doubt that Grace knows her swimming lesson exercises well. In the bath she takes Tracy (one of her dolls), hold her legs out straight and kicks away with them, then Tracy does a "chooka train" along the edge of the bath, stops and does a "bouncy bouncy on the wall, bouncy bouncy till we fall" goes onto her back, turns back onto her tummy and grabs the side. Wash, rinse, repeat.

The baby is coming

No, not really coming….not right now at least…..but there is that feeling in the air, like the change of seasons or the smell of a thunderstorm. I've been building cupboards, Donne has been tidying, we bought Grace a new car seat today (a booster, which she is very chuffed with), and we bought our first set of nappies. The baby is coming. Just 8 weeks now (officially), but I'm working on 6 for a small margin of safety.

It has been a while since Grace and I have been for a swim together. Sickness and various other things have kept us away, but today we finally got it together, and when we got there she totally surprised me by jumping onto her pool noodle and kicking her way first across the pool, and then back to the step. I have never seen her move so well in the water! I am just glad she is finally kicking a bit – maybe it is the practice she has been getting in the bath. For the last week or so, at the end of her bath, she has been diving (literally) into the bath and kicking like a crazy person (with all the water spray that one would expect). Back and forth she goes from one side to the other – dive, splash, kick. The practice seems to have paid off.