Monthly Archives: November 2011

Squish

After a whole weekend of being warned to be careful and not to do it, Grace finally managed to do it…to everyone's despair. It was a blood curdling scream that erupted from her mouth as the door blew closed and squished her finger. She had followed me into the office and had her left hand on the door frame close to the hinges. A gust of wind blew the door closed behind her and squished her thumb terribly. It looks pretty awful and she might end up losing the nail. Fortunately she settled fairly quickly afterwards and a princess plaster had a significant impact. We are praying it gets better soon, but I am pretty sure we are going to finish the princess plasters

The other hairdryer

Grace and I had an amazingly fun time swimming at the gym today. She was loving the float that Donné bought her (looks like a tiny boat, but with holes for her legs to go through) and having so much fun jumping and kicking, riding on my back, launching herself off the step towards me, launching herself of the edge and into the pool, having fun kicking her legs in her float, and most of all absolutely loving being thrown up into the air and splashing down into the water – shrieks of delight followed by, "Again!"

It was such a special time and I loved spending it with her.

Afterwards Grace dried her hair…

Swimming, friends and a Christmas tree

Today was a day filled with water, friends and decorating the Christmas tree.  

It was so warm today that by 09h30 Grace was already cooling off

Shell

I know it is early but with Grace interested in all the Christmas trees that are in the shops and me getting into the Christmas spirit we started decorating our tree.  It may be a few days before it is completely decorated, but Grace seemed to enjoy putting the decorations on and playing with them.

Christmas_tree

Daisy, Daisy

Grace has started singing the last few days. When I say singing I don't mean belting out show tunes, just a different kind of tone of voice and a bit of random or not so random droning. It is quite interesting that she suddenly has this desire to sing. We sing to her every night before bedtime – songs like Silent night, Jesus loves me and Jesus loves the little children. Currently she always wants my rendition of, "To market to market to buy a fat pig" which is just a rhyme and not a song. That started after we went to a market and I added the line, "To market to market to buy chocolate balls, home again, home again we ate them all."

Today she started singing "Daisy, Daisy, give me your answer true." Her version goes like this, "Daisy, Daisy……too." It is very sweet and she sings it with such passion….and be careful of joining in else you will get the, "No any singing!"

Taste!

Grace has recently gone through an expansion of the taste buds. For a long time she only ate plain and simple foods and refused to eat mixed foods like stews. She has always eaten quite well, it just seems like her ability to process the different tastes has improved and she is enjoying trying new foods. In general she has rejected broccoli, but it made my heart glad to see her eat some up tonight and ask for more.

I think part of it has been her nightly routine of asking to taste our supper just before she goes to bed. After her story and a trip to the potty she runs to the kitchen, often shouting, "Taste rice," as she goes along. Of late she has been tasting everything, like chickpea curry and chilli con carne.

I really enjoy seeing her grow and develop. It is exciting to see her changing, even if it is just to try new foods.

Chilling with Mr Spicey

Spice_grace

Kiddies Pilates

Pilates

Tiny potty!

Grace and I spent the morning at Stodel’s Nursery looking at the various animals and playing on the jungle gym, but I think the highlight for her was when we went to the toilet and she found the kiddie size toilets – such delight!

Grace getting Spice high on catnip

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Working on the keyboard just like daddy

Working

Gracie grapes

Grace really likes grapes. We bought our first punnet for the season and she devoured about half of that in a day…we'll have to slow down on that a bit. After lunch we were all having some grapes. Grace had finished hers and was keen for more. After giving her a few as I munched along I ended up with my last three. Thinking that there was one for each of us I held them out to Grace and said, "Grace, which grape would you like?"

She looked at them, sized them up and then….grabbed all three and shovelled them into her mouth as fast as possible. It was then really hard to explain to her that she had been rude through all the laughing going on at the table.

Donné was chatting to her mom on the phone this afternoon and asked Grace if she would like to speak to Granny. "No," pause, "Sorry granny." Well, as least she was half polite.

Unconditional Love

This evening while I was waiting for the veggie patties to cook, I was busy sewing Bunny Foo Foo's head closed after he fell off Grace's sponge.  While I was sewing up the bunny I started thinking about how easy it was for me to take out my sewing kit and do the 5 minute job and yet if a button fell off my pants (both pre and post Grace) I would probably just walk around with a safety pin for, well lets just say, a very long time.  

Becoming a mom has changed me, it's made me want to be the best person I can be. Each day I learn how to be more patient, to slow down and delight in the simple things, to be silly and have fun, but my biggest lesson learnt is that of unconditional love.  A love that has no terms and conditions, a love that gives even when there's nothing to give, a love that does not judge and a love that will sew up Bunny Foo Foo because it makes you happy, and I delight in that happiness.     
      

Play hard

After a chilled-out morning we went for a visit to the Bradshaws in the afternoon. One benefit of visiting at Jack's house is that he has a trampoline which fits in perfectly with Grace's jumping phase. She jumped, she climbed the ladder, rode Jack's bike, swung on his swing, and had lots of fun. At the end of it all, what did Grace say?

"Grace, did you enjoying playing at Jack's house?"
"Jumping! Play hard."
"Yes Grace, you did play hard."

Grace having a bounce on Ben's trampoline on Friday

A few little things

Grace is full of beans at the moment and is picking up lots of quirky habits that make us laugh. Currently there are a lot of things which are "Gracie's," – Gracie's room, Gracie's hole, Gracie's door, Gracie's keys – and it seems she has set her sights on inheriting our car seen as it is apparently "Gracie's car."

She has also discovered that she does not have to just say no, but can give it more flair with "No way." "Gracie, would you like some more food?" "No way!" And then if she were to start moaning, she does let you know by saying, "Moaning, moaning, moaning," over and over in a moan…just in case you didn't notice.

The building is all done! The new doors and window are in and the building work is finished. There is still some finishing to do – mainly painting – but we now have our home back to ourselves. Coat of paint and some security gates and we are pretty much there.

My desk has been standing in the lounge while the building has been going on and Spicy has always loved taking a rest on my chair. Grace thought this presented a perfect opportunity for some fun…