Monthly Archives: July 2011

Avoiding sleep

Grace has started to develop more and more tactics to avoid going to sleep, both during the day and the evening. Mostly she asks to go to the toilet, have something to drink, or have something to eat, so we try to make sure that we have eliminated those options before we even start trying to put her to sleep. She was taking some time to go to sleep after Donné put her down for her afternoon nap today, and I went to check on her. Our discussion went something like this:

Duncan (in stern daddy voice): "Grace, it's sleep time, what is the problem? Is there something you need?"
Grace: "Wee"
Duncan (slightly grumpy daddy voice): "Grace, you have already made a wee, it is time to go to sleep."
Grace (with a little sly smile): "Poo!"
At which point I break down and can't stop myself from laughing: "Grace, you are being naughty."
Grace: "Ja"
And off to the loo we went.

I woke up this morning to Grace talking – not moaning or calling, "Dada, dada," as she usually would. As I got up and walked towards her room it became clear what she was saying, "More, more, more, more…" – I guess she enjoyed her party yesterday and wanted more 🙂

Grace is getting so used to getting presents that when she realised there were no new presents for her today, she decided to wrap herself.

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The second 2nd birthday party

Today we celebrated Grace's 2nd birthday…again, this time with our Cape Town friends.It was an absolutely stunning day and perfect for being outside in the garden and playing on the jungle gym. Grace was spoiled yet again (thank you friends).

Donné did all the hard work planning and preparing the party and I think she did a great job.

Blowing out the candles on the monkey replica cake – no straw needed this time. Grace was generally quite adamant that she wanted another monkey cake, although there was a day when she flip-flopped between a monkey and a bunny.

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Thea taking a swing while the ladies drink tea

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Ready to slide in her birthday outfit (which was soon changed to play clothes, as the jungle gym is not quite totally dry yet…)

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More presents!

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Swinging with someone else can be fun too

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One other little story that I want to remember: yesterday when Grace woke up from her afternoon nap I asked her if she had a good sleep. She rolled over, smiled and gave me a big thumbs up 🙂

A day of pampering

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I got to spend today with special friends and have two and a half hours of pampering – what bliss! Thank you to my special friends and to the men in our lives for looking after the children.

Day in the sun

Today was a beautiful day in Cape Town, and Grace was feeling better, which meant the perfect day to play on the jungle gym.  I must have spent about 40 minutes swinging her this morning, after which she clambered and climbed, enjoyed the slide and pretended to be a monkey on the monkey bars.  It seemed to help tire her out and she was sleeping in 10 minutes at nap time :-). Of course when she woke up the first thing she wanted to do was go play on the jungle gym, so this afternoon more time was spent playing outside.  

I think one of the highlights of her day was sliding our water bottles down the slide.  She thought this was very funny and once the bottles were at the bottom of the slide it was followed by an enthusiastic "more"

Spotty Box Girl

Grace decided that if Coco the cat could hide in the box, so could she. 

Firstly you cross your legs and make sure that you are neatly squished inside the box

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Then you close yourself in

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And then you go boo

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Although the spots on Grace's tummy, back, arms and legs seem to be fading her face looked rather spotty today

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Rash

Grace has possibly been exposed to the chicken pox virus twice in the last couple of weeks, so when she broke out in a rash yesterday we assumed that it was going to be chicken pox.

On closer inspection this morning it was obvious that it wasn’t the pox so off we went to the doctor. He wasn’t 100% certain but thought it might be measles, but Grace had “measles” at 9 months so how is that possible?

Who knows, but I thought at 9 months (and now again at 2) that she doesn’t have any typical signs of measles except for a rash, fever and swollen glands and well that could be most viral infections. So for now I’m calling it a rash and doing the responsible mommy thing of keeping her away from other children just incase she has measles or something else contagious 🙂

Jungle gym! (almost)

DonnĂ© bought Grace a jungle gym for her birthday and it arrived today, to Grace's absolute delight. Waiting while they put it up seemed to be torture for Grace, but I think the cruel part was when the guy said that she can't play on it for two days until it dries….how to teach a two year old delayed gratification. We did let her test out the slide, swing and monkey bars though.

Watching and waiting for them to finish putting it up.

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Testing out the swing

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Dangling from the monkey bars

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Worms

Although Grace is generally a quiet child she has an adventurous spirit and will definitely try most things at least once. Friday when our friends were visiting Caleb asked Duncan to see our worms in our compost heap so Duncan took one out so that Jack, Caleb and Grace could have a look. The boys weren’t all that interested in picking up a worm but Grace was there hand open and willing to let the worm crawl on her. This afternoon we were talking about something which reminded her of the worms and so when Duncan finished working they were back in the garden watching worms wriggle and squirm over her hand.  

Grace really loves all animals (big and small) and does not show fear when it comes to touching or holding them. When we were in Jeffreys Bay she got to touch a monkey at the pet store and she was so delighted to tell me all about it when she came home, telling me she wanted more.

Grace and the worms
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Watching them wriggle and squirm on her hand

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Gog bubbles

Yesterday my cousin Leslie and her lovely family came to visit. She has two beautiful girls, Chloë & Robyn, who adore Grace and during their playing Grace managed to spill the last of her bubble mix. Yesterday morning we were going to get some more bubble mix and Grace saw some bubbles with a picture of a dog on them which she wanted, but we had decided to get them some other time. When she spilled the mix I said, "Don't worry Grace, we'll get you some more bubbles tomorrow," to which she answered, "Gog!" (meaning the dog bubbles).

With all the blowing exercises we have been doing with her she has become quite attached to her bubbles, so we made her some bubble mix with dishwashing liquid last night, but this morning she kept reminding us about the dog bubbles. So off we went to the shops with her adamantly saying "Gog!" We had to get a few things along the way and each time we went into a store she would shout, "Gog, gog, gog, gog, gog!"

We didn't find dog bubbles, but she did have lots of fun blowing bubbles today.

Mee!

It has been really exciting for us to see Grace’s progress with her speech. It is wonderful to see how much joy she gets from a new word, and also a relief to see her making progress.

Yesterday she started saying, “beep, beep, beep” for the horn on the bus (which sometimes comes out as “meep”). She was also trying to say more words, even though it was often just her mouth moving without any sound.

Today she started meouw-ing while reading a cat book, and she had me in hysterics standing in the bath wee-ing like a boy, laughing and saying, “mee, mee!”