Monthly Archives: June 2011

How old are you going to be?

Grace telling us how old she will be (in 9 days). It has been interesting to watch how she has been figuring out putting up two fingers. We tried to teach her a few different ways, but this is the way she has settled on. Although she has it now, it was taking her a few seconds to plan how to hold up only two fingers. For a while she would hold up one, then five, open and close her hand a bit and then very excitedly get to the right position.

Father’s day

It seems that going on holiday might elicit a particular response from Grace – she wakes up in the middle of the night and stays awake for two hours. The last time I can remember her doing something like this was when we were away in Yzerfontein. It went something like this:

02h30…Grace wakes up crying, take her to the toilet, back to sleep. About 30 minutes later, awake again crying….this time a lot more awake than she should be in the middle of the night. Doesn't go back to sleep easily, clearly something wrong. Provide pain medication. Rock for a while. Get a bit wound up that pain medication does not seem to be having an effect. Wifey tells hubby to move cot and baby to our bedroom. Drag cot across to room. At least the guard dogs did not wake up. Then a great struggle ensues. Every time she falls asleep she is down for about 5-10 minutes before waking up crying. Dad blames teeth. Mom worried she is sick. Both are concerned. Struggle continues until somewhere between 04h30 and 05h00. Then after much rocking and walking to and fro, baby asleep. Stays sleeping. Dad sleeping, mom lying awake for at least 30 minutes. Sleep. Wake at 08h00 (at least she slept in a bit). When day sleep time comes, great struggle ensues. Tired baby does not go to sleep. Weary parents. Night time sleep comes, straight to sleep, phew.

I'm guessing Grace is not really into the whole father's day thing.

Grace's artistic rendering of her dad (she made it very clear that this was dad)
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Grandpa helping Grace blow bubbles
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Puzzle upgrade
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Going out with the Grandparents

Today was the first day that we sent Grace out with someone else without us. We have left her with other people before, but have never sent her out while we stayed at home. She went on a short shopping trip with Gogo and Gramps while Donné and I relaxed at home and chatted. Grace really enjoyed her time out with the grandparents (and collected some gifts along the way – thank you!) From the report back she engaged and did the things that she would usually do while out.

It is great that she has been so relaxed and engaged with our families and I'm looking forward to all the grandparents and Keren being here tomorrow.

Grace and I had some fun today flying and jumping off the deck (me holding her, while she stretches her arms forward, then we charge down the deck and jump off the step). The neighbours also brought around a small trampoline which she enjoyed bouncing on – seems like she is working on jumping…

Running on the deck
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Everybody poops

Grace settled in today and had some good time with Gogo and Gramps. What was very cool is that Grace got to meet my aunt and uncle Pat & Gary. Being who she is Pat brought along one of her favourite children’s books, “Everybody poops,” which Grace really enjoyed…she enjoyed it so much that we had to read it twice before bed time.

The book is literal, but I think the sentiment, “Everybody poops,” is a life lesson that I may need to teach Grace one day. The lesson would be about how we’re all actually the same. No matter how rich or famous or idolized you are, we all still need to poop.

Donné’s slipper got buried by one of the dogs but Gramps was fortunately able to divine the spot where it had been hidden.

Grace has also been showing signs of jumping over the last few days. Today she was enjoying “jumping” (more like stepping) off the deck outside the house.

In Jeffrey’s

I’m really proud of Grace for how well she handled a long and busy day. She enjoyed her flight today with Captain Budgie Burgher (yes, that really was the captain’s name), was happy to see all the family, and very excited about the cats and dogs. She even managed to go to sleep easily tonight. We’re all settled in and ready to enjoy a break.

Moving forward with swimming

Today was Grace's last swimming lesson for the term. We have been going since February and it has been amazing to see how Grace has developed. She is really engaging in the activities and enjoying it so much. She rolls from front to back and back to front with me just supporting her head, goes underwater comfortably, kicks beautifully, paddles, and is happy to go for a swim with the instructor.

The fact that she is comfortable going for a swim on her own with the instructor is really wonderful for me. She will actually do all the things she needs to with the instructor, even if she is having a touchy day.

Today it was just us in the class and I let Grace get into the water with the instructor while I waited outside the pool. She swam around, did what she needed to and was totally comfortable. This was a really important step in the process. Grace's skills are good and she understands what she needs to do, the only barrier left to moving to an individual learn to swim lesson was being emotionally ready to be in the water alone with the instructor.

The baby swim classes focus on safety and the parents are always in the water with their children, but the individual lessons are just the instructor and child in the water – parents sit on the side and watch. Charlene (the instructor) feels that Grace is ready for the individual lessons, so from next term we will most likely be in individual classes.

I am very proud of Grace's progress and how well she is doing in the water, and it has been a privilege to be a part of that process. Part of me is a bit sad that I won't be in the water with her any more. I really enjoy our swimming time together as it is something special that we get to share, and sitting alone on the side is not going to be quite the same. Now I have to wait for summer so that we can go swim at the gym together again.

Having fun painting with mom this afternoon
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Sleepy eyes

Grace has started closing her eyes sometimes while being put to sleep (on the days she does not go to sleep on her own). It looks a bit like her "smile" – eyes squished up and a kind of grimace. It is more relaxed than her smile, but quite funny and cute. As she falls asleep her eyes slowly unsquish and her face relaxes until there is just peaceful breathing. A bit tricky to take a photo while putting her to sleep though….

Today was a beautiful Cape Town summer-in-the-middle-of-winter day, so lunch was out in the garden – jumping off of the wash basket (while holding mom's hand) and doing somersaults.

Going..

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Going…
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Gone!

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Fire!

So I was happily relaxing in front of the TV when I heard two loud bangs (it sounded like glass breaking). I jumped up and was expecting to see a cracked casserole dish but was in for quite the surprise when I saw my dish towel on fire.  I grabbed the dish towel thinking ahh not to bad just a little flame, but by the time that thought had gone through my head it was a BEEG flame and I'm yelling "Duncan Duncan"  (who is busy saying goodnight to Grace). I throw the dish towel into the sink, Duncan arrives saying "what's burning?" and I'm just standing there – clearly having a fright not a flight response :).  Anyway Duncan put the fire out and besides two little marks on our counter top and a dish towel that is no longer, no real harm was done. I have been meaning to buy new dish towels for way too long – I suppose burning them is one sure way to ensure I go and get some 🙂

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Hmm, I think this goes on like this…but something is not quite right…..

Dressing

Hiding with the bears

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Having fun at Toys r Us

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Breakfast at Miss K in Seapoint and a walk through Green Point Park with Keren and Justin…

The pirate cat coffee (the coffee at Miss K is really amazing – both taste and presentation)
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Watching the seagulls take a bath 

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Keren & Grace

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"Smile Grace," – well if you can't beat them, join them

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